{"id":129618,"date":"2023-09-02T12:22:25","date_gmt":"2023-09-02T16:22:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/?p=129618"},"modified":"2023-09-02T12:22:25","modified_gmt":"2023-09-02T16:22:25","slug":"hour-four-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/2023\/09\/hour-four-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"hour four &#8211; marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\">I wove our worlds together,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">silk, cotton, linen,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">wool for the cooler months<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">nothing synthetic<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I would have picked the flax and cotton myself, sheared the sheep even,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">but I was in the garden picking herbs and vegetables<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">for the soup I was making for dinner,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">which I would put in the handmade bowls<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I made just for us,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">with the cups for all the tea I would make for you<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">and plates to serve meals to our friends that I found and collected<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">like heart-shaped rocks from the shores of my own travels,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I brought them together over food and sometimes wine<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I grew and picked the flowers for the tables we gathered around<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I painted paintings to adorn the walls,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">knit blankets to keep us warm<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">and found all the ways I could to make our life beautiful,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">even when things got hard.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I grew our children,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">in my body,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I carried them through the nausea and fears.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I fed them for six months with my own body.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">My body stretched wide and back again,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">never to be the same as it once was.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I made it my priority to serve and protect them,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">to nurture them,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">to love them so fiercely that the love itself became a protection<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">to keep them from feeling the ways you and I once did<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Their tears, their pain, their sadness, their heartaches, their flesh wounds<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">were all mine to carry and I did,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I do<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It is a gift like none other, I know this,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It has been a privilege, I know this too,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">but when you stand there and tell me I need to work more,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">to make more money,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It makes me want to throw all the dishes at the wall,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">tear up the fabric I have spent years weaving together,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">and leave everything for you to clean up<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wove our worlds together, silk, cotton, linen, wool for the cooler months nothing synthetic I would have picked the flax and cotton myself, sheared the sheep even, but I was in the garden picking herbs and vegetables for the soup I was making for&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4841,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,441],"tags":[1407,683,484],"class_list":["post-129618","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-half-marathon-poem","category-poetry-prompt-responses","tag-hour-four","tag-marriage","tag-poem-four"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/129618","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4841"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=129618"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/129618\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":129932,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/129618\/revisions\/129932"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=129618"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=129618"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=129618"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}