{"id":143617,"date":"2023-09-03T08:28:58","date_gmt":"2023-09-03T12:28:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/?p=143617"},"modified":"2023-09-03T08:28:58","modified_gmt":"2023-09-03T12:28:58","slug":"notes-on-being-a-dad-24","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/2023\/09\/notes-on-being-a-dad-24\/","title":{"rendered":"Notes on Being a Dad (24)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>He&#8217;s gone back to school<\/p>\n<p>pursuing welding<\/p>\n<p>and he&#8217;s still making his art<\/p>\n<p>as unhinged as ever<\/p>\n<p>when his son asks to talk to the mother<\/p>\n<p>he doesn&#8217;t fight it<\/p>\n<p>even though she traded him for substances<\/p>\n<p>and she makes no attempts<\/p>\n<p>he wants him to make whatever decision he will<\/p>\n<p>to form his own opinions about his family<\/p>\n<p>his kid, to him, isn&#8217;t a weapon<\/p>\n<p>or a bargaining chip<\/p>\n<p>but a fully formed being needing a little guidance<\/p>\n<p>there are those who say I&#8217;m not ready to be a dad<\/p>\n<p>because mine left before I was born<\/p>\n<p>to them I point out men like this<\/p>\n<p>who are better fathers<\/p>\n<p>than he could have hoped to be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He&#8217;s gone back to school pursuing welding and he&#8217;s still making his art as unhinged as ever when his son asks to talk to the mother he doesn&#8217;t fight it even though she traded him for substances and she makes no attempts he wants him&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3743,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-143617","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-marathon-poem"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/143617","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3743"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=143617"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/143617\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":143672,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/143617\/revisions\/143672"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=143617"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=143617"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=143617"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}