{"id":26120,"date":"2016-08-14T00:39:41","date_gmt":"2016-08-14T04:39:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/?p=26120"},"modified":"2016-08-14T00:39:41","modified_gmt":"2016-08-14T04:39:41","slug":"validation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/2016\/08\/validation\/","title":{"rendered":"Validation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I yearn for a life that living cannot bring,<br \/>\nquiet corridors with passages I can hide in,<br \/>\nescaping men that claw my pant legs begging for attention,<br \/>\ndemanding validation for their actions,<br \/>\na validation I would not give,<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you have a boyfriend?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;No&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Do you want one?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;No, I don&#8217;t,&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Why not?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Pawing at me,<br \/>\npersistence isn&#8217;t sexy to me,<br \/>\nan invalidation of feelings I already verbalized,<br \/>\nleave me alone,<br \/>\nplease, <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re in the friend zone&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;What&#8217;s the friend zone?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;A place where she won&#8217;t sleep with you, only be your friend.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;How do you get out of that?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Get her to sleep with you.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>I sleep with you,<br \/>\nquiet, next to me you purr,<br \/>\nthat doesn&#8217;t last long,<br \/>\nyou want more,<br \/>\na relationship perhaps, <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How&#8217;s the relationship life man?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;It is going well&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Yeah, lot&#8217;s of sex?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Of course, why else would I be with her this long?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Congratulations man.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Unheard degradation shared with your friends,<br \/>\ntravels through our networks, they reach my ear,<br \/>\nI feel a wince of regret,<br \/>\nsomehow I thought you were different,<br \/>\nI yearn for a life the living cannot bring. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I yearn for a life that living cannot bring, quiet corridors with passages I can hide in, escaping men that claw my pant legs begging for attention, demanding validation for their actions, a validation I would not give, &#8220;Do you have a boyfriend?&#8221; &#8220;No&#8221; &#8220;Do&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":741,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,441],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-marathon-poem","category-poetry-prompt-responses"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/741"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26120"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26120\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26381,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26120\/revisions\/26381"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}