{"id":26991,"date":"2016-08-14T03:38:43","date_gmt":"2016-08-14T07:38:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/?p=26991"},"modified":"2016-08-14T03:38:43","modified_gmt":"2016-08-14T07:38:43","slug":"pardon-your-privilege","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/2016\/08\/pardon-your-privilege\/","title":{"rendered":"Pardon your Privilege"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Welcome home honey,&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A\u00a0mothers open arms spreading cigarette allergens around,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">I hold\u00a0my breath and bitter resentment,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">Enter her embrace,<\/p>\n<p>the essence of her, covered by a vice that alleviates part\u00a0of her suffering,<\/p>\n<p>who am I to judge?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">Survivor of violence people left unnoticed,<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t go through that,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">I just witnessed it,<\/p>\n<p>Excuse me,<\/p>\n<p>judgmental bystanders labeling\u00a0my family as broken,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">broken in what sense?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">broken- you grew up in poverty,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">broken- I didn&#8217;t think you would be so successful,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">broken- your mom does live in a trailer,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">correction- I grew with hunger,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">correction- I didn&#8217;t see you as worthy of my investment so I didn&#8217;t take the time to help you out,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">correction- my mom owns that trailer<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Thank you very much for your ill concluded observations,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">She may spend her paycheck on rent and cigarettes,<\/p>\n<p>but she answers my phone calls <em>every<\/em> single\u00a0time,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">I wish I could say the same,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">&#8220;Mother, How are you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">a question often asked with underlying guilt on my behalf,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">the knowledge of her well being, so clearly visible,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">&#8220;I am doing well, but let&#8217;s hear about you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">She hides\u00a0her needs,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">the hierarchy of knowledge has created distance between us,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">education does not mean a lack of suffering,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">my worth is not more than yours,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">she shows me the room full of my awards again,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">pride fills her eyes,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right\">I \u00a0have a nice day with my mother.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Welcome home honey,&#8221; A\u00a0mothers open arms spreading cigarette allergens around, I hold\u00a0my breath and bitter resentment, Enter her embrace, the essence of her, covered by a vice that alleviates part\u00a0of her suffering, who am I to judge? Survivor of violence people left unnoticed, I didn&#8217;t&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":741,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,441],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26991","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-marathon-poem","category-poetry-prompt-responses"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26991","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/741"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26991"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26991\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27166,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26991\/revisions\/27166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26991"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26991"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thepoetrymarathon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26991"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}