Hour 7: What is Normal?

What does it mean to be normal?

A question I have asked myself.

I do not like the word normal

It should be put upon a shelf.

I used to use the word

Like a lot of people do

Until I became the mother

Of a special child, then I knew.

Normal is whatever

Is normal for each soul

Normal is not something

You put into a mold.

Normal is a word that shoves

A circle into a square

It makes everyone the same

A quite dismal affair.

Just because someone

Is not “normal” in your book

Do you think that makes them less?

Or did you just not think to look?

Everyone is quite unique

Even if they live the same.

We each have different thoughts

A different claim to fame.

Instead of thinking normal,

Maybe typical would do

To explain the similarities

Of what we all go through.

A typical progression

Of a skill or track

Walking, talking, singing, writing

We have our own unique way of giving back.

2021 #7 – Normal

What is normal?
Conforming to the usual.
What is "usual"?
Who determines the "usual"?
Why do they get to say what is "usual"?

If I say what is normal,
how can anyone say I am abnormal?

Normal is subjective.
It is compliance to a standard.
What is normal for one,
may not be for another.

The only normal that
should be universal, 
is to be tolerant of
other peoples' normal.

 

Farm life

I have horses.

I have dogs.

I have turtles.

I have fish.

I have guinea pigs.

I have children.

And I have a husband too.

Hay for the horses at 5:30

Walk the dog at six.

The turtles are kind and quiet.

They don’t beg to be fed,

So most weeks I sneak them an extra ration.

Change the water. Clean the tank and don’t forget their delicious morsels.

Fish are divas and dir if they aren’t treated with specific care.

The guineas ate quite literally pigs and begin impressive dialog the minute they see you coming-

They don’t want love or attention. They want food. And they want it now.

The children won’t wake with the crows, but the minute they rise they won’t hesitate to let you know-

They want want what everyone else has already been given.

And the husband, well he just wants coffee in his hand.

I never wanted a farm.

And yet here I am with a menagerie of animals

I’m not sure I ever really wanted.

What am I to do?

Can I move?

 

 

Before – Hour 7

I remember

The last breath of unfiltered air

On a cool evening

I stopped and raised my hands in the air

And filled my lungs as much as I could

 

I remember

Trying to hold that breath

Because words cannot explain

How pure and wholesome

How refreshing

 

Had I known

I’d have held on a little longer

Because now the air is polluted

With an incurable virus

And to breath this filtered air

Has become the new normal

 

Hour 7 – Contrast

Be a burst of yellow,

or an eruption of mauve or a flaming red

in the sea of beige that

swallows all.

Dare to be happy

unabashed in your bliss,

celebrate, rejoice, scream with joy,

refuse to let the world paint

your walls, instead

take buckets of the brightest

hues you can find

and splash them on your door

and you’ll see

the miracles that tiny specks

Stand proud, laugh and keep on

adding tints of uniqueness

in the lifeless grinds

that envelope us.

 

Level The Tide

Storms blow and disappear

The atmosphere absords in fear

She exhales fear into tears

 

It is cool with long threads

And tames the old man’s rest

Your 10

Body like plywood pushed through a press

mind as empty as the cavity of the sky

(and there aren’t even stars)

bent knee to all things

because the Bible says so

I wish you’d stand up

and

fill your mind with heresy

and

be less of a philistine

footstool

more of a boot

on their throat

The Man in the Hallway

The Man in the Hallway

 

They never found you.

I don’t know if you’re still alive or not,

but you live inside me, even today.

 

You are only one of many

men in hallways who have hurt me,

but I remember you most.

 

It is extremely expensive

to be a victim, all the moving around,

trying to find a place which feels

 

like home, the specialized therapy

for decades, psychiatric meds

piling up in numbers, but I’m still not

 

numb.

 

Scattered

Joan says, I’ve been a little scattered lately,

you have likely felt the same. Endless

possibilities are not always a virtue, 

All the natal charts, tarot cards, and

oracles are of little help today. 

But your body knows, your breath

will tell you that you don’t need to decide, 

Ace of wands, eight of pentacles, 

you have likely felt the same.