Take some months, maybe years and stir it up in a container larger than you think you’ll need. The ingredients will rise and fall, so don’t be alarmed.
Add some fights, to taste
Sprinkle in some disappointment
Maybe an infidelity or two
Add some tears, a tablespoon at a time
Set a timer, although the timer will always be wrong
It’ll be ready when everything is broken and there’s nothing left to save.
Although it may leave a bitter aftertaste, no amount of sugar will save it.
Walk away before you know it’s done. If you wait for it to be well done, it’ll always be charred along the edges.
Take some more time. Lick your wounds. Wash the dishes. Walk away.