Grandma had her tea
Once at breakfast
Once around lunch time
Green tea
Steeped in her porcelain tea pot
With matching cups
I was invited sometimes
Sitting across from her
My tea weaker
with a spoon of sugar
Hers sweetened with saccharin pills
Mine lightened with milk
We would sip and talk
I felt grown up
Important, almost Victorian
Grandpa never joined us
He was a coffee man himself
But he set up the service for her
Boiled her water on the stove
Filled the pot for her
Added the bags
Their ritual twice a day
Every day
Later when they were gone
Mom and I had our own tea days
Earl Gray and Lemon Zinger
A cup in the microwave
Replaced the whistling kettle
Porcelain tea pots with matching cups
became decorations in the china cabinet
After Mom passed, it was just me
and soon the tea
Became coffee on the run
Sometimes I imagine sitting there
Gently holding the fragile tea cup
I can taste the milk
Hear Grandma’s laugh
Perhaps one day I will buy a box of green tea
Maybe pull out that whistling kettle
Let the tea steep in the Porcelain Teapot
Set out a fragile matching porcelain cup
And sip slowly
The way Grandma taught me
This is adorable!! I tear came out…I visilized that precious moment with your Grandparents, mom, and now you alone. We have the same experience. My tea cups are ready to welcome you one day…
You take us inside a personal ritual in a feeling and respectful way. I hope you do make your own ritual as you aspire to in this poem. Thank you for awakening memories of my own special moments.
Yes, a tear for me too. Where did all the rituals go? Beautiful.