Upon Death
On 24th December my father died.
We were expecting his death
But on the day he took his leave
He had his breakfast, and soup
for supper, went to the toilet by himself.
In the evening he was uncomfortable
The doctor came and wanted him
To be admitted to hospital
‘You can’t do that
He needs to stay with his family’
And he stayed.
My brother and I stayed by his side
And read the Bhagvad Geeta to him
Don’t know if he listened or understood
Early morning – he just stopped breathing
We waited for his breath to resume
But it never did – such is the nature of death.
My two children came to take Nana’s leave
My son brought him his ‘glows in the dark’ toy
Put it on his pillow and kissed him.
My daughter brought her Rag doll
Florence, and laid her tenderly on his side –
This is to keep him company as
He is going a long, long way away.
We kissed him one by one and
said our Goodbyes after all
Death is a part of life
It comes to us all.
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Sundar
What a wonderful gift of being present for your father